As a parent of a child on the autism spectrum, there are certain things that we want others to understand. Raising a child with autism can be challenging, and we want to help others understand our unique experiences. Here are 17 things parents of children on the autism spectrum want you to know:
1. Autism is a spectrum disorder, which means it manifests differently in each child.
2. Communication can be difficult for children with autism, so please be patient and understanding.
3. Help us by using simple and clear language when speaking to our children.
4. Children with autism often have difficulty reading social cues and may not understand how to behave in certain situations.
5. Our children have different interests and may not enjoy playing the same games or activities as typically developing children.
6. Sensory issues can be overwhelming for children with autism, and they may need to take breaks from loud noises and bright lights.
7. We are not overprotective parents, but we do need to be vigilant about our child’s safety since they may not perceive danger in the same way as other children.
8. Our child’s behavior may seem odd or challenging, but the underlying causes may be related to their autism.
9. It’s essential to treat our children with respect and dignity, even if they may not behave in a socially expected way.
10. Children with autism often have difficulty with transitions or changes in routine, and meltdowns can occur during these times.
11. We appreciate it when people ask questions, and we are happy to explain more about our child’s autism.
12. Our child’s different way of thinking and unique abilities should be celebrated, not stigmatized.
13. We do not want pity or sympathy, but we appreciate support and understanding from our friends and family.
14. Autism may be a significant aspect of our child’s life, but it’s not the only thing that defines them.
15. Education and resources are essential for our child’s success, and we appreciate when individuals and organizations show support for autism awareness.
16. Our child may not be able to express their emotions in the same way as other children, but they feel just as deeply.
17. We are always looking for allies in the autism community, and we appreciate those who advocate for our children’s needs and rights.
In conclusion, parents of children on the autism spectrum want you to know more about our unique experiences and challenges. Our children are different, but they deserve the same love, respect, and opportunities as any other child. With support and understanding from our communities, we can help our children thrive and reach their full potential.
