It is hard to control our emotions. But there are several ways to reduce emotional avoidance.
1. Be honest with yourself: Are you comfortable living in your world, or do you feel like you have to keep your emotions under control? Honesty will help you better understand how you interact with others and impact their emotions.
2. Build a support network: Who do you know you can talk to about your feelings? They may not be aware of the same issues you are, so it is important to find a support system. This could be a close friend, family member, or therapist.
3. Take action: What are you going to do to take control of your emotions? This could be anything from taking a break to writing in a journal to spending time with a loved one. Taking control of your emotions will help you to feel more in control and less stressed.
4. Let go: Sometimes, it is best to let go of our emotions. Sometimes it is better to let them out in the open. Sometimes we must let go of our baggage to move forward.
5. Be kind: Are you often kind to yourself but not kind to others? What could you do to ensure you are treating others the way you would want to be treated?
6. Be honest: Can you be honest with yourself and others? This will help you better understand how you impact others’ emotions.
7. Talk about it: Sometimes, it is helpful to talk about our emotions. This will help us better understand why we are dodging conversations, feeling overwhelmed, and how to manage our emotions better.
8. Get creative: Sometimes, it can be fun to get creative. What are you going to do to get in touch with your emotions? How are you going to express yourself? What are some creative ways that you can deal with your emotions?
9. Take a step back: Sometimes, it is helpful to take a step back and appreciate the people and things that we are around. This will help us better understand why we are avoiding conversations, feeling overwhelmed and how we can better manage our emotions.
10. Talk to a therapist. A therapist may be a good option if you are uncomfortable talking to your family. They can help you better understand your emotions and manage them.