Since the 1990s, helicopter parents have become increasingly common in America. This trend has been attributed to both technological advances and a growing emphasis on parenting skills.
What are helicopter parents?
Helicopter parents are parents who hover over their children constantly: providing them with constant support and guidance. They are usually more attentive to their children than other parents, and they make an effort to be involved in every aspect of their children’s lives.
What are the signs of a helicopter parent?
There are many signs that a child is being raised by a helicopter parent. Some of the most common signs include:
• The child always feels like they need the parents’ approval
• The child feels like they can’t do anything without their parents’ help
• The child feels like they can’t survive without their parents’ support
• The child never feels like they can make mistakes
• The child always feels like they need to be protected
• The child never feels like they can be themselves
• The child never feels like they can be themselves around other people
The effects of being raised by a helicopter parent can be devastating. Children who are raised this way often develop an over-reliance on their parents and a lack of confidence. They may also become very defensive and act out when they feel threatened or unsupported.
How can a helicopter parent be prevented?
There is no easy answer for how to prevent helicopter parents from raising their children. However, there are a few things that other parents can do to help:
• Make sure that you are involved in the child’s life
• Let the child know that they can speak up if they have problems
• Don’t hover over the child constantly
• Respect the child’s independence
If you suspect that a child is being raised by a helicopter parent, it is important to talk to them. You can also consult with a professional therapist who can help you deal with the effects of helicopter parenting.
