Respect is a strong and positive emotion that we feel when we understand that someone is important to us and that we accord them certain privileges and responsibilities because of that. Respect is also a way of acting in which we treat others as dignified and valued members of our community. Here are six highly effective ways to teach respect to kids:
1. Make sure that you set a good example yourself. Make sure that you treat others with respect: both verbally and nonverbally. Behave in a way that will encourage others to do the same.
2. Model the behavior you want your kids to emulate. When your kids see you behaving respectfully, they’re more likely to do the same.
3. Praise your kids when they act respectfully. Let them know that you appreciate their good behavior and that it makes a difference.
4. Set clear boundaries. Respect is a two-way street. Kids need to be able to respect boundaries. Make sure that you communicate your expectations clearly and consistently.
5. Set ground rules. Kids need to know the rules of the game before they can play it. Make sure that your kids know what is and isn’t allowed in your home and community.
6. Use consequences when necessary. If your kids break the rules, provide a consequence that is consistent with the severity of the offense. This could include a time-out, a loss of privileges, or a punishment that is physical or emotional.
