When one spouse’s parenting style is radically different from the other, it can create tension and conflict in the home. If the two styles are too different, it can be difficult to find common ground and develop a cohesive parenting plan.
Before trying to change either spouse’s style, it may be helpful to assess the problem and determine its source. Sometimes one spouse may be more laid back and allow the other to take a more active role, or the other may be more hands-on and domineering. It is also important to evaluate the child’s role in the conflict. If one spouse is parenting in a way that is not in the child’s best interests, the couple may need to adjust their approach.
If the couple is unable to work out a solution, it may be necessary to seek outside help. A therapist or mediation service can help the couple to understand their feelings and to develop a plan of action.
