When it comes to meaningful conversation, there are a few essential questions to ask before any conversation begins. Whether you’re trying to get someone to open up, get information from someone, or simply establish a connection, these questions will help to ensure a productive and meaningful discussion.
- What are your goals for the conversation?
Without knowing the intentions of the other person, it’s difficult to have a productive conversation. Ask yourself what topics or issues you’d like to learn more about, or how you can improve upon what the other person has said.
- What are your expectations for the conversation?
Do you want to have a productive discussion, or are you just looking for an opportunity to get someone off their guard? Be clear about what you want from the conversation and what the other person is likely to want from it.
- What are your boundaries?
Do you want to talk about certain things, or do you want to go at it head-on? Are there any topics or topics that the other person is not comfortable discussing? Be clear about what you’re willing to discuss and what the other person is likely to be open to.
- What are your expectations for the other person?
Do you want the conversation to be meaningful, or are you looking for an opportunity to talk without any value? Be clear about what you value in the conversation and what the other person likely values in it.
- What are your expectations for the conversation?
Are you looking to have a productive conversation, or are you just looking for someone to talk to? Be clear about what you’re willing to talk about and what the other person is likely to be willing to talk about.
